When Your Child
Gets Hurt on the Field

Every parent’s heart stops for a second when their son or daughter goes down during a game and doesn’t get up right away. The instinct is to rush onto the field, to help, comfort, and protect. But as hard as it feels, you’re not allowed to step on the field, no matter the age group or level of play.

Here’s why, what happens next, and how to handle it the right way.

Why Parents Aren’t Allowed on the Field

• Safety first: Only referees, coaches, and official medical staff are authorized to enter the field. This keeps things organized and avoids additional risk to players and spectators.
• Insurance and liability: League insurance policies forbid unauthorized people on the field. If an injury occurs while you’re out there, it can complicate liability.
• Game control: Referees are trained to manage the situation calmly and efficiently. When too many people run in, it can delay treatment and create confusion.

What Happens Step by Step

1. The referee stops play.
2. The referee calls the coach and/or team trainer.
3. The coach or trainer evaluates your child on the field.
4. If needed, the referee signals for you.
   

• This happens when the child is too young, scared, or when the injury seems serious.
• Until that signal, stay on the sideline, it shows trust and composure.

What You Should Do Instead

• Stay calm. Your reaction sets the emotional tone for your child and the other parents.
• Don’t shout instructions or blame. Coaches and referees are handling it.
• Get ready to help once the player leaves the field. Bring water, a towel, or ice if needed.
• Have a small sideline medical kit. Instant ice packs, wipes, and adhesive bandages come in handy.